Adoption Process and Single Parent Adoption

The adoption process can be overwhelming. There are many options that you will need to familiarize yourself with.   The first and most obvious step of the adoption process is to join an adoptive parent support group to get information and support from other parents going through the adoption process as well as those who have already adopted.  Read adoption books, magazines, web articles.  Attend pre-adoption information meetings and conferences hosted by local adoption agencies.

Selecting an adoption center or agency is the next step. However, knowing what to look for is very important. Doing research and getting referrals on quality agencies can save you money, time and heartache. Agencies are there to help you in the adoption process whether it’s a traditional two parent adoption or a single parent adoption. They’re experienced in handling the paperwork, the “red tape” and any issues that may arise with regards to crossing state lines and international adoption. They’re also trained to handle the emotional and legal aspects of adoption with both the birth parents and adoptive parents. How do you find a reputable, quality agency?

Credibility. Always ask for references from families who have used their services. Don’t stop there. Follow up with these families. Ask questions. Are you happy with the service the agency provided? What were some of your positive experiences? Did you have any negative experiences? Was the staff professional and caring? You can also check with your local Better Business Bureau to be sure they’re in good standing

Longevity. How long has the agency been in business? Although length of time in business doesn’t indicate how good or bad an agency is, it means you may have more information to make an informed decision. The longer an agency has been in business tends to give it more credibility and reliability. Agencies that have been in business a few years have dealt with many different issues. Their knowledge may help when up against difficult cases.

Types of agencies. There are traditional adoption agencies and agencies who specialize in non-traditional types of adoptions. Some specialize in finding families for “special needs” children. Another type of non traditional agency is one who specializes in single parent adoption and gay and lesbian adoption. Do your research on the adoption process to find the agency that is right for you.

Fees. Do some comparison “shopping”. Just because an agency charges a substantial fee doesn’t mean their service is better than another agency. Likewise, an agency who doesn’t charge a large sum doesn’t necessarily mean it will give bad service. Many non-profit agencies will have lower fees because they deal with special needs adoption or other hard to place children. Compare similar agencies to get an idea of what the average fee is.

Counselors. What are their credentials? How long have they worked in the agency and been involved with the adoption process? What is their level of expertise? A high turnover rate is a red flag.

Every adoption process includes a home study. What exactly is a home study and is there anything you can do to prepare for it? The home study evaluates your life, your family and your whole home environment. They look at how the family interacts with each other. Who lives in the household? Do you have other family members living with you such as grandparents, step children, etc. They’re ultimately looking for adoption readiness. Documents needed may vary from state to state but here is a list of likely documents needed.

Proof of income—tax returns, pay stubs, other financial documents

Health Assessments for each family member in the household

Training Certificate (check with your state for this requirement)

Birth Certificates

Marriage License or Divorce Decree

Living Expenses

Letters of Reference

Be sure to answer the questions as accurately as possible. Complete the paperwork in a timely fashion and make copies for your files. Although the home study is a long process, it is a necessary part of the adoption process. This home study is done for both traditional prospective adoptive parents and non-traditional adoptive parents such as single parent adoption.

Consult with your agency or attorney to continue the process. It is a long and sometimes frustrating process but so rewarding to finally hold your new baby.

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